really allergic to my BF's family cat. he still lives with his parents...?
and he wont ask them to give it away or some other alternative (none of which involve harming the pet).
He wants me to feel comfortable at his house, but im severly allergiv. I take antihistamines and bring my inhaler.
It hurts my feelings that he and his family are thinking that whats the probelem with the cat, even though they know im allergic. Its in the house a good majority of the time, the dander is everywhere. I dont think its too dramatic to say that I feel crappy b/c a family pet of only a few months is trumping me, his girlfriend for over 5 years. Im not faking this, I actually had blood drawn when my asthma was getting worse, cats got a 5 or a 6 (cant remember) on their rating system (at the allergy clinic.
Just tell me what you think...
he comes over to my place, but would rather me over at his parents place.
its their right to own the pet, but at the expense of it being difficult for me to breathe.
it would be asking them not telling them.
Answer by Miss L
I don't think that you have any right to expect them to give the pet away. It's their house, not his or yours. So you have to respect that it's their animal and that it's living there.
If it's so bad, why not have him visit you at your house? Problem solved.
Answer by ag_boutali
My girlfriend had the same problem but hers was her best friend's house and she get really sick whenever she went there, i believe you about that blood drawn, cats are really bad for some alergics (asthma and other...)
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